Sex Work is it Really a Raw Deal for Men?
Sex Work Has Become Normalized
When you see a young woman with a social media following acting pleasant and feminine, you almost reflexively assume she is engaging in funnel marketing for her OnlyFans. Men often lament what they go on dating apps, they go days without matches only to finally get a match who messages them a menu. We are reaching an era where women are given a large variety of options for monetizing their sexuality and many men are so low status they will have to pay to talk to a woman. Middle class prostitution is rampant, though most of the girls want to put layers of abstraction on it. They may refer to themselves as sugar daters, who enter into relationships with elder men for resources and career advancement. They may call themselves twitch streamers who stream in bikinis while playing videogames with a large male following. However the facts of the matter are, these women are engaged in prostitution. Is that really such a bad deal for men?
Bride Inflation not Hoeflation
Many men in the RedPill space talk about a concept called "Hoeflation". Hoeflation essentially says that men are forced to pay more than their grandfather's for women who are lower quality than their grandmothers. I would say they are right in the sense that if you want a woman for a long term relationship based around pairbonding and family formation, but they are wrong if you are talking about a floozy for a quick romp. Brides are extremely expensive, as you must compete with all men for the tiny minority of women who haven't been peer pressured into modern degeneracy, but hoes have never been cheaper.
The service that hoes provide are completely undifferentiated and subject to the same forces of hypercompetition that plague every aspect of modern life. Look at the economics of OnlyFans. The average price of an OnlyFans subscription is $9.99 and the median OnlyFans annual salary is $4995. The average rent in the US is $2195, so this doesn't even pay a quarter of rent. These women are forced to supplement their OnlyFans income, with full blown prostitution. The prostitution is also subject to hypercompetition. One of the things that would disgust the average man and woman about prostitution is just how cheap paid pussy really is. It is often joked that free pussy is the most expensive kind, and that joke is true. In Germany, prostitution is considered a normal job, and the average salary is around 25000 euros. This is the reality of a hoe. This is what it means when the hordes of sexless young men check out of traditional courtship and take modern women up on their offer.
Tricks and Johns are Bosses
Many men are reticent to buy prostitutes as they don't want to be considered "tricks". However this disdain sex workers have for their customers is a form of impotent protest at their predicament. Women generally enjoy a higher status then most men, largely due to their control of reproductive access. These women are strikebreakers and their job is to service men who have bypassed the pussy cartel. Their job is to sleep with men who attack the source of female power. They dutifully listen to their problems, laugh at their jokes, and then blow them. They are used as objects and hired by men they consider the dregs of society. Tricks hire them, making them their bosses. It is only when the trick fails to realize that and seeks a relationship with the prostitute is he a "trick".
Most of the men who seek out prostitutes, go that route because they are looking for affection. It is when they first begin buying sex that they are the most vulnerable. When these men gain some self esteem, most of them quit seeing sex workers. However, some men go to sex workers and they have an epiphany about the deal they are making. Instead of feeling pathetic for buying sex, the act makes them feel powerful.
Many men enter into relationships purely because it is the only way they can think of to have regular sex. They deal with an ungrateful woman, who may not have even wanted him a decade ago. Now that he has advanced in his career, and she has a child that needs resources she is ready to settle. She doesn't fuck him as enthusiastically as her baby daddy and disrespects him in ways she never would disrespect the men she pulled when she was younger. They put up with a woman who doesn't really like them and fucks them for practical reasons, like a prostitute. Prostitutes are called honest women for a reason.
When a man sees a prostitute and compares the arraignment to the average man's relationship with a woman he is baptized. Prostitution is the glitch in the matrix, a hack that gives the sex buyer super powers. He looks at the woman across from him, who purposely fails to hide her hatred from him, and smiles inwardly. If this woman was his girlfriend, she'd have no problem being an ungrateful cunt, forgetting all he did for her to give him an earful and not fuck. In this arraignment, she bites her tongue and kneels before him to dutifully fulfill all his sexual desires. He performs sex acts on her that he would never perform on a woman he respected. She is a human fleshlight, who feels superior to men, but needs them to survive. She is ... a woman. This philosophy slips into his relationships with non prostitutes and he carries the confidence of a man who could get his sexual needs fulfilled whenever he wants, quick and cheap. He sees women for what they really are, cheap commodities.
Ask this question in you relationship with your wife/girlfriend.
Prostitutes talk about how they are bosses, but they are the playthings of the men who buy them. Prostitution allows average men to objectify women in the way that Chad would. Any man who understands that has the power.
Sex Workers are Fleshlights
While sex workers talk a big game about finessing men and being boss babes, their mental heath speaks for itself. The life of a sex worker is a sad one, where you can never become wealthy, but you can live comfortably while you're young. The women never seem to realize that their youth is slipping, and by the time they do it is too late. They have next to zero marketable skills and their leverage has atrophied with age. They begin seeing clients they wouldn't see when you have options, or they begin performing sex acts they never would in the past.
Do these women seem powerful to you?
Prostitution is so traumatizing for women, that they rank it as more traumatizing than being a police officer or firefighter, jobs that cause physical harm. They defend prostitution while they are in it because it is all they have. They know they have degraded themselves and only the lowliest men will try to court them, or men who quite simply just see them as sex objects.
She doesn't hate her Johns, she hates herself. A cheap fleshlight for public consumption.
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